Today was my first day of bedrest that was spent entirely at home alone (aside from a quick lunch visit from the husband). I’m not going to lie – it got a little lonely. I think the hardest thing about having to lay around all day is that I have way too much time to think! Today most of my thinking involved hyper-analyzing my hospital packing list.
I think I’ve realized that I feel really out of control right now. Everything I thought would be in my control…just isn’t. Obviously things like organizing our house and going to childbirth classes and whatnot are not happening the way I thought they would. I also had this ideal dream that the babies would be head down and would stay that way until time to deliver…but no such luck so far. Not just one, but both of them are breach! Naughty babies;)
So, subconsciously I’m taking the few things I can have control over and going crazy with them I guess you could say. So here’s a quick rundown of my “work-in-progress packing list.” I’ve done a lot of research and questioning of friends, but I’m still open to suggestions from all you experienced moms out there. I also want to go ahead and establish the fact that I am an overpacker and an overplanner, and I seriously hyper-analyze things. So, I will no doubt pack items I’m not absolutely sure I’ll need every single time over wishing I had something I didn’t take. Better safe than sorry is my motto here.
Things for me:
breastpump (in case we have NICU time and I can’t nurse)
Belly Bandit – still researching this, but may be able to buy it from a friend. Hello post delivery twin baby belly!
maternity yoga pants
nursing tops – so far I have 2 of these, this and this
big, comfy underwear I can throw away later
reusable nursing pads
hot/cold breast packs
comfy outfit to wear home
Mama Bottom Balm
New Mama Bottom Spray
My Brest Friend twin nursing pillow – not sure if I need to take this?
my own pillow case
iPod / mini speakers
slippers to throw away when I leave – I’m sort of a freak about stuff like this
shower flip flops to throw away when I leave – see above:)
Say Yes to Cucumbers facial wipes – love these!
Okay, sadly that is just my part of the list…now for what I’m taking for the babies:
going home outfits – two preemie just in case and two newborn
2 hats for each baby
2 sleepers for each baby- no idea if this is enough
2 onesies for each baby
baby mitts – want to resist buying these, but don’t want to have scratched baby faces!
baby nail file
2 receiving blankets
1 pkg preemie/newborn diapers – we’re planning on using disposables the first week
comb/brush – in case they come out with tons of hair…which based on my heartburn level currently…
baby book/ journal
And last, but not least – for Jon:
I can’t imagine how I could possibly be forgetting anything. I haven’t actually started gathering this stuff yet, but at least I have a list ready in case something crazy happens (I’m a little paranoid after this last surprise) and my mom or Jon end up packing my bag. Oh wait, that will probably happen anyway since I can’t leave the couch:/ We’ve been planning on getting a new car before the babies come because, well, while it’s likely possible that both carseats will fit in the Mini, once they’re in I don’t think half this other stuff is going to fit. My twin breast feeding pillow takes up the entire trunk all on its own!
I feel like this week I’m finally making some good progress toward getting prepared. Thank you notes are well underway, obviously the packing list is almost done and my mom is coming over on Friday to help me wash baby clothes and organize them in the nursery. After much thought today, I’ve decided that this bedrest business must be part of the Lord’s plan to help me get used to accepting help from people. I’m a bit of a control freak, and I don’t like to inconvenience people, so to have our friends come over and be so sweet to make dinner at our house while I sit and watch makes me cringe. I know I need to get better about accepting help from people, especially because I’m going to need it once two little babies are filling my time!
Speaking of people helping, yesterday my Sunday School teacher’s wife visited me and brought the cutest little care package. I just kept pulling stuff out thinking it was never going to be the end – homemade cookies, 3 books, a magazine, a candle, lotion, baby socks (!), etc. etc. Totally made my day.
And then later our friends Ryan and Elyse and JJ and Seth came over for homemade pizza and cupcakes. We were originally supposed to go to JJ and Seth’s house, but they agreed to bring the party to us since I couldn’t go…so nice. They brought all the pizza ingredients, and we provided the cupcakes. We were having a grand time until a sudden storm blew in. Good ole’ Oklahoma. We never even saw it coming, but suddenly there it was. Elyse and Ryan had to rush home to get their dog inside, and the party fizzled a little early. The good news is that just gives us reason for a redo!
More excitement ensues tomorrow with our fourth and final shower at Jon’s work. It amazes me how generous people are and how much we’ve been blessed with help preparing for the twins already. Babies, you are so loved!